We love men. In fact, we adore them. We like their bodies, their brains, and their strange way of doing things. So it's always a tricky tightrope when you're dealing with a guy to know when to be there for him -- and when to cut and run.Since we're here to help the ladies, we've created a handy guide that will help you know when your man is just being a dude -- or if you've got a dud on your hands who needs to be dumped.1. "I don't feel like having sex." Sure, every man has an off day. But you know what? Most guys want to have sex all the time. And if you're not getting it on, on a regular basis, especially because your guy is claiming that he's just "not feeling it," you can bet that your problems are going to turn out to be bigger than a case of the sex blues. In this particular situation, you may want to get to the root of the problem before this supposed dry spell kills your love, too.2. [Read the full article]

Companies spend billions on rent, offices, and office equipment so their employees will have a great place to work.However, when you ask people where they go when they really need to get something done, you'll rarely hear them say it's the office.If you ask, you'll usually get one of three kinds of responses: A place, a moving object, or a time.They'll say their house, their back porch, an extra bedroom they've converted into a home office, a library, the coffee shop down the street, the basement. Or they'll say their car, or a train, or a plane -- basically, during their commute. [Read the full article]

With shortened workweeks, holiday parties, gifts to buy and hectic family schedules, it can be especially difficult to concentrate on work during this most wonderful time of the year.But even though most of us will have a lot more on our plates over the next few weeks, the holiday season -- especially the week right before a holiday break -- can actually mean greater productivity at work, according to a new survey from Accountemps.The survey, which polled more than 300 senior managers, found that 32 percent believed that employees were actually more productive during the holidays, and 44 percent noticed no difference in productivity levels.Kathryn Bolt, an Accountemps executive, attributed this to many people working better under pressure. [Read the full article]

As we march into another hectic holiday season, past Veterans Day and past the ceremony in which Staff Sgt. Salvatore Giunta became the first living recipient of the Medal of Honor since the Vietnam War, it is a good time to pause and to reflect on this.There is something extraordinary about young men like Giunta and the seven others who, posthumously, were awarded the Medal of Honor by Congress as a result of their actions in wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.These men see the world differently than we do. Their actions go far beyond the duty to which they swore, right hands held high, at 18 or 19 years old, just before shipping off to boot camp. [Read the full article]